Monday, December 5, 2011

To be Thankful

It's that time of year to reflect on ones life.  I will admit, I'm extremely lucky and thankful for everything and everyone in my life.  I am married to the most beautiful, understanding, forgiving and thoughtful wife a man could have.  I have 2 beautiful and precious daughters that I can't imagine life without them.  Have a home of our own that we can grow in.

All of this, I wouldn't have imagine living in Hawaii.  I guess it took a mountain of mistakens and bad decisions to get me on this path that I am now.  For that I am thankful for where I am in life, I have never been this happy ever.

Haole or local

What does the title mean...
You see, I was born and raised in Hawaii.  While growing up, if you were born and raised there you were considered a local.  Anyone who's from the "mainland" is considered a haole, which jmeans white.  Even if you moved to Hawaii, you're still considered a haole.  My mom teases me that I'm a haole and it really doesn't bother me, it's kind of funny. 

I left Hawaii in December of 2001 and have been in the "states" ever since.  Am I still a "local" in the terms of Hawaii or have I been labeled a "haole."  Does it really matter, you might be thinking as you read this...  Georgia is my home for me and my family, it will be for a very long time.